Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Another Crude Article Bashing Fraternity and Sorority Life



Recently there was “article” featured in the Wall Street Journal, about a woman, who 27 years ago was raped by a fraternity man at the University of Virginia. The article is entitled ” Shutter Fraternities for Young Women’s Good”  and it details this woman’s opinion of why she believes all fraternities should be shut down. She sites
“ The Greek system is dedicated to quelling young men’s anxiety about submitting themselves to four years of sissy-pants book learning by providing them with a variety of he-man activities: drinking, drugging, ESPN watching and the sexual mistreatment of women”.
I’m appalled by this. I’m appalled her lack of knowledge. She focuses on what she believes the Greek system, that she is not a part of, stands for. I acknowledge that this was a terrible incident, and  the man involved deserved to be punished by the courts, but I do not acknowledge that this woman’s response is appropriate, based in fact, or legitimate. She downgrades the young men in fraternities stating that they basically come to college to get drunk and rape women. This to me is a blatant misuse of the power of journalism, as well is a slanderous report on Fraternity men.
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When the media gets a hold of a story that shows the sorority and fraternity community and bad context, they run with it. While they choose to ignore several thousand of hours of community service completed, the millions of dollars donated to philanthropy fundraising and leadership development that our students take part in. Why is this?
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Below is a link to the article, as well as a link to the response from Phi Delta Theta’s International President. He very eloquently says exactly what I am thinking, and what I’m sure many active and alumni members of fraternal organizations are thinking as well.
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Just a little something to think about.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

The Who, Why, and How of EDU 270.04

Who am I?


Who Am I? Well that's a loaded question. I am a daughter, a granddaughter, a niece, an aunt, a friend, a sister, an advisor, an advocate, an alumna. I'm a Delta Zeta. I'm an Academic Advisor, I'm a sorority advisor, I'm a fraternity advocate. I'm a Buckeye, an Ashland Eagle, a Kent State Golden Flash, and an ECU Pirate. I'm a fan of coffee/tea, diet coke, ice cream, sharpies and post it notes. I love doing service, making a difference, and Cleveland Sports teams ( I do know they are terrible). I am Kristen Rupert, and I will be serving as one of your instructors for EDU 270.04 this quarter.


Why am I in my Sorority?


I joined Delta Zeta in 2003 when I was a freshman at Ashland University. As a freshman at AU, I was a member of the cheerleading team and was required to move in about 3 weeks early for practice. The cheerleaders became my friends, and when the rest of the students began moving in, I felt like I already had a niche and didn't "need" to try as hard to make friends. When sorority recruitment rolled around, the other freshman cheerleaders were going through, and I decided I would as well. Best. Decision. Ever.  During recruitment I struggled figuring out where I fit best and what I wanted, my ultimate decision was Delta Zeta. While all of the other cheerleaders joined a different sorority together, I decided that I liked the DZ women the best. They were fun, outgoing, a little loud, and were just like me. This ended up being a transformative decision in my life and I will ALWAYS be proud that I made that decision. (Obviously there is far more to this story, and if you ever want to know, just ask... it's a pretty funny tale)


How do I feel after reading this Blogabus in its entirety?


I feel inspired, motivated, and ready to help each and every one of you set out to change the future of the Fraternal Movement at Ohio State and beyond, as well as to help you all realize the awesome potential that each of you has to make a supreme difference in the fraternity/sorority community, at Ohio State, and in the world.


I am always available outside of class to help you brainstorm, process or just chat.